Learning styles, and the fallibility of grown ups - Sally's Journal
Learning styles, and the fallibility of grown ups|
|Date:||December 12th, 2005 12:32 pm (UTC)|| |
I suppose it's a "people skill". You can insist the whole world acts like you (or, I suppose, timidly ask whether the whole world thinks that your way is better), or you can accept that the only person you can change is you, and learn to deal with people who don't understand that your timidity is merely lack of confidence, not lack of being right.
Thank you, by the way. You've increased my understanding of others - and myself - and that's rare and valuable. I think I have a confused mix of assertive-quickly-followed-by-timidity, and probably stay assertive around timid people, and become timid around assertive people. Which is back-to-front. Oh, how beta-male.
|Date:||December 12th, 2005 12:54 pm (UTC)|| |
See, you can change more people than just yourself, she just did.