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July 14th, 2005
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I had a lovely evening last night with [info]cjwatson and [info]ghoti. They fed [info]emperor and me nice food and nice whisky, and we played bridge.



Now bridge is a strange game. Let us put to one side for a moment the fact that if you told my 11 yr-old self that I would be going out, with a fiance, for dinner and bridge, and *enjoying* my life, they'd either die laughing or storm off in a huff. Even taken as a card game, rather than a strange-middle-class-socialisation-ritual, I find it odd. And working out why I find it odd leads me to some odder conclusions

What makes bridge different from doppelkoft? Well, one person is "it", and the other person is "out". And the partnerships don't move round. But it can't be that I don't like to be the centre of attention (you've all seen me at parties, right?) Although it may be that I don't like being the centre of attention when I'm messing up, but I'm not actually bad at bridge.

I hate having to hold state in my head though. If I wanted to play a memory game, I'd play a memory game. Although I wouldn't, because I don't like memory games. I like games where I can do the thing that seems right and it all works out well subconciously...

Maybe the whole thing is that I'm *scared* of being bad at bridge. And like lots of things that seem difficult, not trying is far far better for self esteem and social standing than trying and failing. My cambridge social circle is made up of clever and interesting people, who band together with other clever and interesting people. Maybe there's a little part of me that lives in terror of them finding out I'm not actually clever or interesting. And the thing about bridge is that if your partner knows they're reasonably good, and they go down horribly badly, they're going to notice you messed up. Hey, in bridge the entire other-three-people in the game are watching you (because you're "it") to see if you make your contract or you mess up. In most other games I feel people notice if I win, and really don't notice if I don't. People are pretty self absorbed usually.

So maybe its that I don't like being watched, that I like games where I can sit and let the conversation flow round me or make myself the centre of attention if I want. But not making yourself the centre of attention in bridge, by bidding incorrectly so you're never in contract) spoils the game for other people. (And spoiling other peoples fun is bad)

Also, I do get a strange feeling that other people's bidding conventions are somewhere between go and mornington crescent, and if I dared to play bridge in the real world they'd laugh at me for playing something very little advanced from whist.

All that said, I had a great time playing bridge last night. Maybe I should do it more.

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From:[info]fluffymark
Date:July 14th, 2005 05:48 pm (UTC)
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I really must play Bridge again sometime. I used to be a little too good at it, and stopped because it was taking over my life. I think the addiction may have passed now.
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From:[info]robert_jones
Date:July 18th, 2005 11:36 pm (UTC)
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You wouldn't like to play bridge with me would you? We could go to the Young Chelsea, which I presume is not too far from here, and where I understand good bridge is played.
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From:[info]fluffymark
Date:July 20th, 2005 01:00 pm (UTC)
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If by the term "good bridge" you mean, "like bridge from another galaxy" then yes, you'd be right. The best players all play there, and play something although called bridge, doesn't appear to resemble the bridge played anywhere else.

Yes I'd love a game. I've not been to the Young Chelsea in years and I've been wondering about it again recently. Wait until I've finished moving and have settled in, so sometime next month I guess. And Baroness Henig (long time bridge partner of mine who I've recently found out has become a member of the house of Lords) has prior claim to a game with me at the Young Chelsea should I be heading that way. Or something. I'll let you know when I know I'm free.
From:[info]cartesiandaemon
Date:July 14th, 2005 05:49 pm (UTC)
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I was always hopeless at remembering. Otherwise I liked it. Though for ages when I was learning I was paralysed with fear I'd get it wrong whenever I did anything and didn't play fast.

And I generally didn't like team sports where I was shit, because (1) I was letting everyone down and (2) you don't get to do much which isn't fun. But that doesn't really apply here: you're playing with friends, even if you were bad and this was a problem they'd say so.

I remember David and David having silly conventions, but observing I decided they did it because it was fun: it gave them a greater chance of making it big when they had lots of special bids saying "Hey, I've got... do you have... if so bid a slam" and whatnot, at the expense of making it harder to bid boring hands, which spiced up boring hands. So not *that* superior to a sane system :)
From:[info]yrieithydd
Date:July 15th, 2005 04:34 pm (UTC)
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I was always hopeless at remembering. Otherwise I liked it. Though for ages when I was learning I was paralysed with fear I'd get it wrong whenever I did anything and didn't play fast.

I know that feeling.

Thanks to Foundation and then Rivendell, I've improved at trick based games and can now occasionally be persuaded to win tricks (and thus lead to the next trick),* but I still find the idea of not being dummy when our side has the contract utterly scary! But I've only actually played bridge about 3 times!

*My Contract Whist strategy of bidding to lose tricks used to drive [info]claroscuro up the wall!
From:[info]cartesiandaemon
Date:July 18th, 2005 11:34 am (UTC)
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But otoh at least when it's your contract you're in control, and you can plan with reaosnable accuracy what you'll have to remember beforehand...
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From:[info]robert_jones
Date:July 18th, 2005 11:24 pm (UTC)
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I still find the idea of not being dummy when our side has the contract utterly scary!

Never bid NT.
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From:[info]rjw76
Date:July 14th, 2005 05:53 pm (UTC)
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Bridge happens approximately once a week at my house. If you'd like to be prodded about the next one, this can be arranged. Let me know...
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From:[info]naath
Date:July 14th, 2005 06:18 pm (UTC)
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I need to play more bridge... or rather, I need to figure out how to play bridge. Because it could be fun. If I understood it.
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From:[info]atreic
Date:July 14th, 2005 09:05 pm (UTC)
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That would be fun (all the disclaimers above included, of course :) ) I can come with an [info]emperor too if that makes numbers squarer, although we both tend to play with the other person rather than each other, for the sake of Domestic Bliss. (I don't think this rule is set in stone though)

Random chiark types are frequently found playing bridge in the Carlton on Thursdays too...
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From:[info]olithered
Date:July 15th, 2005 09:47 am (UTC)
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Bridge with beer!? Sounds interesting :-)
From:[info]stephdairy
Date:July 14th, 2005 06:26 pm (UTC)
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I have a similar problem with bridge. It's a game, and I normally enjoy games but don't take them too seriously; I think about what move to play fairly hard but not very hard and I don't care too much if I lose. With bridge, the partnership arrangement means that someone else is dependent on me to play well and possibly that their enjoyment of the game is dependent on my playing well. Because I believe that everyone else thinks more about their game than I do, I can't treat bridge with the same carelessness that I treat other games.

That takes the fun out of it for me and replaces it with stress.

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From:[info]l_ren
Date:July 14th, 2005 06:54 pm (UTC)
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Not being good at card games doesn't make you thick. Or at least I hope it doesn't anyway...
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From:[info]the_lady_lily
Date:July 14th, 2005 07:14 pm (UTC)
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I haven't played bridge seriously since Sixth Form. Gosh. I should try and do better.
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From:[info]arnhem
Date:July 14th, 2005 07:49 pm (UTC)
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I have very happy recollections (from years ago) of long afternoons spent in pubs playing German Whist, Cribbage, and Hunt the Lady; all of which have a pleasing mix of short-term and memory-based strategy (and intuitive estimation of non-trivial probability distributions), a fair mix of luck, and moments of wonderful unfairness and being-picked-on (or at any rate feeling as if you are).

I'm quite puzzled by why bridge has never grabbed me, though.

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From:[info]atreic
Date:July 14th, 2005 09:09 pm (UTC)
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Well, L. might be a bit young to make up a bridge four. She's just the right age for teaching cribbage though...

Mmm, cribbage. I haven't played cribbage for aaaages. Or bezique. All I need now is a willing opponent :)
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From:[info]ilanin
Date:July 14th, 2005 09:59 pm (UTC)
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*waves*

For cribbage, anyway. I learned Piquet as my other two-player game.

I never got around to learning Bridge either, although I know the rules and have a shaky memory for *some* bidding conventions. My preferred four-player game is Solo Whist, since it doesn't have a dummy and Misere hands are just *fun*.

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From:[info]robert_jones
Date:July 18th, 2005 11:29 pm (UTC)
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Gosh, I haven't played Solo for a decade. It's fun, as I recall, but less deep than bridge, which after all, is the only truly intellectual card game.
From:[info]cartesiandaemon
Date:July 15th, 2005 08:11 am (UTC)
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Cribbage I can do.
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From:[info]arkannath
Date:July 15th, 2005 12:12 pm (UTC)
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Haven't played bezique in a while... Cribbage also! We might have to arrange a game...

Bridge also good - I tend to play rather cavalierly, with a disregard for caution.
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From:[info]ptc24
Date:July 14th, 2005 08:59 pm (UTC)
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It takes a while to get the hang of remembering cards. I find it helps to have a plan, and to keep track of how that plan's going in order to remember them.

Did I tell you about the bridge tutor program I found on the net?
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From:[info]atreic
Date:July 14th, 2005 09:34 pm (UTC)
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No, you didn't. Or yes, you have done now. Depending on how you look at it. Where was it?
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From:[info]purplepiano
Date:July 15th, 2005 08:49 am (UTC)
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I used to play bridge at school, I think it's a great game and would love to play again. But I remember getting unreasonably irritated at how seriously everyone else took it. As in, spending about as much time analysing the previous hand as it took to actually play the hand. Part of it was my own laziness about self-improvement, refusing to learn to count cards when the other players seemed to be natural at it. Also, what [info]stephdairy said.
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From:[info]atreic
Date:July 15th, 2005 08:52 am (UTC)
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Maybe we should found the lighten-up bridge society. But then all the people I play with already would say "but we *don't* take is seriously and join, so I'm not sure how that would help :D
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From:[info]simont
Date:July 15th, 2005 10:38 am (UTC)
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Well, it would mean you could say "oi" and kick them out again if they subsequently took it too seriously for your taste :-)
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From:[info]mair_aw
Date:July 16th, 2005 07:50 pm (UTC)
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make them play naked?

*scratches head*

hm, no, maybe that doesn't help.
From:[info]cartesiandaemon
Date:July 18th, 2005 11:33 am (UTC)
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What, a "remove and article of clothing it you're sarcastic when you say 'thank you partner'" rule? Well, it'd be different. And kind of fun :)
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From:[info]holzi
Date:July 15th, 2005 07:32 pm (UTC)
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The variatey of Doppelkopf I used to play is much less rational than bridge, because the suits are by far too short (the worst case version for diamonds is that you'd potentially only have two 10s and two Kings in the suit...) and there are by far too many trumps (up to 30). Which of course means it's much easier to play it without counting/calculating too much. However do you have bridge tv coverage in England? In Switzerland I've actually discovered that the most famous local card game (Jassen) is being covered in primetime or afternoon tv every now and then.
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